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    January 10

    Wow... A Year Has Gone

    As my title suggests wow a year has been and gone.. and a year since i last posted. I'll try keeping a summary of last year as short as I can so you don't read such a boring blog.

    First semester began the beginning of uni life, joined the KiwiAsian Club and made many new friends not only from my course but from many other faculties through existing friends. The Lantern Festival in March was alright, though I hadn't been there in a few years it seemed pretty much the same with the karate school performing and the food stalls out front all packed with people trying to fill their growling stomachs. I took Eva along with me as well as my mum and her friend and Henry, with Eva and I on our own I got her to try a few things and she liked them so she might go back this year for more lol.. we saw people with candy floss but couldn't find where to get them so the whole night we walked around and around to find the person selling it whilst looking at the pretty, bright festival but yet such a crowded place you would probably be focusing on not tripping on someone and trying to get through the crowd then it was time to go home and relax as uni was to start on Monday and man was I not prepared. The thing was I knew I needed to read a bit for uni, seeing as I don't prefer to read in the first place but the amount of reading that had to be done was so much it was like I can't have a social life if I want to keep up.

    The first half of the first semester I was able to keep up and balance my social life with uni life as it wasn't as hectic or full on, giving some leniency to have some fun, with the assignments needing to be handed in one after another I was still able to attend the Orientation Bbq with Kathryn and Aneesya at Cornwall Park for the KiwiAsian Club and though we were a tad late we made it just in time to get spilt into teams to run up one tree hill and back down again.. yay!! lol.. other than that we managed to meet a few of Kathryn's intermediate friends and a few new ones who I've tried to keep in touch with when I can. The fun ended and the readings began again this time it was coming close to mid semester tests and any final assignments for the half of the semester being due, when another KiwiAsian Club Event arose, this time being the Dessert Night which was fun, having to skull ice tea, draw using our mouths with chocolate, a cake eating competition was even in there with a bet totalling around $40 all in all which got everyone hyped up but the best part was eating cake... mmmm soooo delicious too bad Aneesya couldn't make it as she had a law test that night and probably needed the sugar.

    Finally!! Midsemester break had arrived but I still had to study seeing as all my tests were after the break so not really an actual break for me as well as having to continue with an assignment. All that studying was making my head a little disoriented with so much information stored in only a few days and not answering my txts much so why not take a break?! that's what I did lol.. took a break at the KiwiAsian Club's Sports Day at Avondale College which was soo much fun lol.. man I missed playing sports, we played netball, badminton, soccer and dodgeball.. by the end of the day not many people stayed and a whole lot more were in pain from all the running involved lol.. Later that second week of break I went on the KiwiAsian Club's Few Days Away trip without Kathryn, though she was originally going to go with me but decided to stay home to babysit her brother. Overrall it was fun, making up dances, me staying up all three nights.. major insomnia then, think it was the study.. and a hell of a lot of drinking on day one with an executive getting ko’ed and a few others just being totally wasted and a bit on day two for those that weren't driving back the next day but again with executives getting wasted and ko’ed lol.

    Ahh.. the day had come, the end of break and my tests began and ended in just a week, sad to say I failed accounting my major but it was only the midsemester test and was sure I could do better in the finals.

    A presentation was to be done for information management in only a week, seeing how I was pretty bad at speaking at assemblies in 7th form I didn't have much confidence speaking in uni, amazingly my team consisting of Lavanya, Jing Jing and I did pretty good and managed to get ourselves an A+ for it... go us!! Later that semester around mid May I had a pretty busy day, with classes in the morning, an assignment due, double booking myself with dodgeball and meeting my older brother in town, reffing a hockey game in Avondale College with the original intention of just supporting and then going to a KiwiAsian Event in Newmarket eating steamboat, playing pool and karaoke for some, just typing all that was a mouth full...but you get the jist of what happened.

    The second half of semester kinda ended up making me fall behind in my readings for accounting as I had missed a chapter and then having so many assignments coming up that it made me lose track and stress especially after having 5 assignments due so close to one another and after completing one immediately getting another the next day, not being able to handle so much at once I ended up taking the short route on my final accounting assignment and failing it. Why is it that I seem to be jeopardizing my accounting major?? Why?

    During the last few months I had been getting pretty cosy with this guy Matthew who was a friend of a friend of a friend lol.. and after all my assignments were completed and handed in we decided to go out as a couple, hiding it for about a week that we liked each other from others, it finally came out in the end and we’re still going strong, anyway I had only just over a week to study for my first final, information management, but first had to help Asenati a zeal leader with 2007’s prefect’s amazing race along with Antonia, Courtney, Kathryn and Desiree (sorry to those I forgot). That day was soo much fun, watching all those 7th formers run around in town not knowing where to go or where to look, it was a good reminder of how we had done ours.

    My finals were soo annoying I started on the first day and finished on the last day, though it was good because it made my finals evenly spread out to study it was annoying because most people I knew had finished and were enjoying their holiday and I wanted mine. During my exam period it was my birthday and normally I don’t celebrate it or try not to, but this time was different, it was my first date with Matthew.. awww and he looked so handsome compared to me because I had an exam on my birthday, great start to celebrating my birth lol.., anyway we went and played pool, then walked around town till we reached the viaduct to just sit and gaze at the view together before heading to dinner at a Japanese place, soo delicious and romantic.. I won’t go into much detail as this blog isn’t going to get any shorter lol but it was a nice end to a bad start to the day.. so continuing on while I was studying for my last two exams I had to not only make my costume I was going to be wearing for the Ball Skit at the end of the year as Ling Xiao Yu but also get things packed for my ski trip with the KiwiAsian Club the next day after my last exam, this time Kathryn was coming with me so that was cool.

    The ski trip was 4 days of fun, 2 days of drunkenness, 2 days of snow… it was the first time I saw snow as well since I arrived in NZ.. my butt got soo sore from falling so much and a sore wrist from falling on that as well that I decided to take the last day off and build a snowman with Kathryn, Sarena, Allen and Tim.. originally it was a competition between the boys and the girls but then we decided to merge the two. There were so many pictures that our snowman took… must have loved the short term fame lol.. also while onlookers were taking pictures we decided to have our own fun and have a snowball fight.. hehe.. while this reporter was apparently taking our pictures.. hmm.. wonder where those turned up. When it was about time to go and we were all waiting for the others to come down from the hill, we decided we’d throw snowballs at those that came down.. hehe man was that fun.. though my aim wasn’t that great..stink thing was on my way back I got majorly car sick but was fine when I got home. My final results for the first semester PASS!!! Passed them all yeayeah!! That will end my first half of my uni year..

     

    Second semester is here.. this semester happened to be my project semester, having a project for business in terms of a simulation business company, one for information management in terms of making a software and all the little projects I helped with in order to try and become a KiwiAsian Executive for this year and skit practice. This semester wasn’t the amount of reading I had to do though it slightly is with business and accounting readings but it was more about the amount of meetings I had to attend, missing food!! L my business and information management project were pretty simultaneous in terms of when it started and when each team wanted to meet with each other. As the projects needed more attention I began to read my business textbook at uni on Sunday.. yea I know I’m at uni on a weekend but it was before getting picked up by Logan the organizer of skit to take me to practice so I had about 2 hours or so to kill, why not catch up, I actually did something productive in my spare time for once lol. I also eventually gave up on the amount of readings my information management lecturer wanted us to read on the net.. soooo many links… sooo little time… we’re not like him.. we don’t sit on our butts in front of a computer reading stuff like him.. who by the way is able to reply to an email in under 15 mins at 11pm… do I need to say more? I’d have to say though that second semester I had to see my friends less with all the commitments I had and also not go to as many KiwiAsian Events as I would have liked like paintball.. you know how much I love to shoot people with paint.. but I couldn’t go.

    Nearing the mid of the first half of the second semester Kathryn and I had applied for the potential executive interview thing, I got in but it involved 4 months I believe of this interview which went by pretty fast. We met up for an overall general meeting and was split into teams using the device of a hat..lol.. I was with Mark, Kaye and Danny. Kathryn with Bettina, Marcus and Leo. Danny had left for a holiday for a couple of weeks so I had to work with Mark and Kaye till he got back and man was that difficult and thus I had to take charge and make decisions with the amount of things I had going on as it was it would have been nice if they could have made it a little easier especially since Mark did say that I did have quite a lot of work for a first year student. Our idea was Foodoke, where we ate and sung, I got to the restaurant just in time after having lunch with my family and family friends, had to leave early otherwise I would have missed my own event, not only was I stuffed from my own lunch but to make use of my money being there I had to stuff myself more, was sooo bloated after all that food, whereas some weren’t going back for seconds and thirds even.. so that turned out pretty good as not many people left after the food.. Kathryn’s team had an Amazing Race which seem pretty hard to organize but they got it done in the end with Aneesya and I lending a hand with handing out the clues. It was a little hectic for us as well having to run in many directions to fill in missing gaps where people were suppose to be and that was the day I stuffed up my phone.. lol.. made the battery completely die.

    The projects continued, the assignments continued and the practices continued.. what next?! Tests, mid semester tests. First up economics test numero uno.. lol.. I actually studied for it and got 78% but sadly later in the semester I slacked off on the second test and dropped to 58% lol.. glad I wasn’t there to collect my paper from him hehe.. would have got such a disappointing look. I had my information management test and after relying heavily on theory I still failed but only just failed… the coding was what got me and if I had gotten at least one question fully right I probably would have just passed.. oh well..

    As soon as the break ended midsemester break was here…yes!! Because it put one project on hold, business though too bad information management wasn’t but not like it would have made much difference. Aneesya’s birthday was the first day back so we thought we’d have it the day before on Sunday, lunch and Karaoke!! We had pizza, chips, cake and lollies with Kathryn, Chris and his girlfriend Katie, Eva, Priti, Dharsi, Dominica, Aradhna and her little sister and Leah.. while Kathryn and Dominica went to get pizza, Leah and I were trying to make a karate movie but when it came down to it, leah forgot the the moves half way and we ended up laughing. Dharsi was the only one that couldn’t go to Karaoke but she should have, it was soo crack up.. Chris and Katie just watched while the rest of us went nuts over the songs.. it was a good day before I had to leave to work the Matthew’s family restaurant… oh forgot to mention he had one, well now you know lol.

    Another event had risen, Survivor and it was fun.. though it rained most of the time. We had to eat weetbix, burry people in sand, play the fighting game on a plank.. I can’t remember what it’s called, search for treasure and a quiz… soo much fun.. though I forgot to bring a towel or spare clothes.. how smart am I.. it was at a beach you think logically that’s what you do lol..

    Next up was my brothers’ graduation.. he was graduating from his diploma and so I missed all my classes that day except the last one because it was compulsory to attend.. man was that ceremony long, we had lunch after at a nearby Chinese yum cha restaurant, but I had to leave soon so we finished up and I got dropped off at uni to attend class after almost being mistaken for not having uni when my dad was on his way home. The next day I had dinner at Pizza Hut in New Lynn with the hockey girls from Kelston Girls’ as I was invited for playing a game once, got to get to know the new girls in the team and caught up with my old team mates so that was fun before getting my oldest brother to take me home as I had a midsemester test for accounting the next day… and again.. why do I do these things around accounting?!

    Another KiwiAsian event needed to be thought up from us potential executives and this time I was with Bettina, Danny and Marcus and Kathryn was with Mark, Kaye and Leo. We came up with an asian gameshow but to me I’m not entirely sure how well that went with everyone always on their butts and not getting much done.. though I think Kathryn’s project runway event was fun, messy and funny.. lol.. again with Aneesya and me being helpers lol..

    Finally my projects were coming to an end, my last assignment gave me almost a month to complete so wasn’t high on my priority list, my information management presentation was first up and after being criticized about the colour and inconsistency we managed to pass with a presentation mark of a B and a delivery of a C+, oh well we still passed. My business project soon came to an end after our peer reviews, overall we passed that too but the actual performance itself we didn’t.. oh well was a good experience though. Finally it was time to vote on this year’s executives via a annual general meeting, the executives for this year is Kathryn, Danny, Marcus and Bettina out of the Potential Executives and Tim, Sang and Winner from last years executive team

    Disappointed I didn’t get the position but I had to focus on my finals for the second semester after so much that happened especially trying to understand information management.. I met a friend in new lynn to help him with his assignment by giving him an interview based on the KiwiAsian Club. My first final was accounting which seemed to go pretty easily from what I thought later on that day I had to go to Matthew’s brother’s wedding..which was nice and small at the Perennial Gardens..Then off to the Penny City Restaurant for the reception a lot of food and a chocolate fountain!! Lol.. though as I was told if I didn’t eat vegetarian like Matthew’s family I wasn’t allowed to sit with him, not that hard a choice to make.. slow danced with him after being dragged by his younger sister and her boyfriend, hearing such funny speeches by both the groom’s best friend and the brides’ sister lol.. we eventually cleared up and left at 11.30 with me getting back at around 12 or so.. then back to study the next day as I had an economics final on Monday lol.. and my final two exams later that week as well..

    Exams finished and it was time to help at the family restaurant as Matthew’s younger sisters had their NCEA exams to do and needed the study time so I was the replacement..Went to the KiwiAsian Club’s End of Year Party at Sixth Sense, got tipsy and left by 12.30 as Kathryn’s dad was giving me a ride home and didn’t want him to wait too long.. um.. what else celebrated my 6 month anniversary with Matthew at Muriwai beach which was fun.. got drenched by the waves lol.. just a pretty simple average westie styled celebration. Went to the Mission Bay beach with Kathryn, Aneesya, Matthew as our driver and Marcus.. we met up with Marcus after a while and we hung out.. with Aneesya and I chasing Matthew around.. me getting tossed in the water by Matthew and vice versa.. lol.. hilarious.. but was drenched the whole day that I had to always sit on a towel to not get the seats wet lol.. before heading home Kathryn, Aneesya and Matthew went looking for shells.. I would have joined in but didn’t feel like it as much as they did.. Head to Silverdale to go luging with my brother for our cousins 21st, ended up losing a bet and had to take $20 off my brothers debt to me.. oh well knew it was coming lol. I can’t drive as well as him. Start work at the $2 shop to take over Sayantani while she’s on holiday for two weeks... Spent Xmas evening at Matthew’s place having dinner and playing Pictionary with his siblings.. very funny game..  especially when people can hardly draw.. hehe.. oh and I PASSED!! Passed all my second semester papers but I’m not satisfied with the marks though and that’s the end of my year 2007.. man that turned out longer than I anticipated..